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What to do when you feel people don't respect you?

You ask him or her, "You disrepecking me bro?"
If the answer is anything other than, "I'm not disrespecking you bro," you prove your physical dominance by dominating him or her physically.
lol... bro here's the transcript of the whole video ... i never said anything or even close to what you are saying...

anyway thanx for the comment.

1. Hello everyone, today’s topic is what to do when you feel people don’t respect you? The number one reason why people don’t respect you is because of a simple universal truth, that they are blinded by ego. It might be at first hard to understand, but you will eventually get it.
2. It also depends on the type of action that you have performed, if you have committed a horrendous crime such as thievery, rape or murder. And then you expect people to respect you? That’s not going to happen.
3. First of all, you have to make sure the action that you’re performing. Is it according to the principles of spirituality or the spiritual master you have chosen for yourself? If yes, then it becomes easier for a person to handle the people who he/she thinks are not respecting him/her. If not, have no regrets or guilt for the action you have taken, but from now on, you have to make sure that whatever action you are going to take should be according to the principles of spirituality or the spiritual master you have chosen for yourself.
5. UNDERSTAND THE PARADOX: before you complain or I complain that people are not respecting you or me, ask yourself, how many times have you disrespected other people? the answer would be yes, many times. Then the problem also lies within you.
People usually get affected by disrespect, is because their ego got hurt, and it is creating a form of pain or suffering inside of them. Whoever the person that is disrespecting you, if you can remove him/her out of your life, then its good, practice self-love. And if you cannot remove them, then bear them, till eventually a situation will come or you yourself have built so much immunity within, that you will not be at all affected by them. Because you as a person will be so clear, in seeing that the other person is just blinded by ego. And this fact itself will be enough for you to be happy and in peace with yourself.
4. Now the person who is watching this video right now also has an ego, and I personally too have an ego. I will not deny this fact. But I have the awareness of it. There are still certain things that people do, which makes me to not give respect to them, but I do it with awareness. Sometimes getting disrespected is good for you, it pushes you to grow spiritually. People 99.9% of the time, disrespect other people unconsciously.
I'm trying to figure out what you mean in 3. in order to accept it and therefore assimilate it, but I'm not able. Probably I'm not familiar with the teachings of which you are enlightened. I mean, you would have to give everyday, simple examples to reach people's hearts.
hmm true... CTORH... Actually in the video I did share the link where you need to know more about the #3 topic...But still I'll make more videos on that...

thanks for the suggestion.
Now I begin to understand, I received the explanation yesterday.

PRIDE is one of the main obstacles to human development.
Bro, your list is numbered: 1, 2, 3, 5, 4.

Should I follow it as is or should I do 4 before 5?

Also, it seems to be missing some steps. After doing all that hippie crap, what next?
The numbers and the order are of no significance. Please ignore them. It is a transcript of the whole video i wrote it for myself, has nothing to do in the order its been written. better just watch the video. And interpret it as you wish.

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